I started this post several months ago and never finished it. I suck. But it was pretty funny, so I'll just post what I had (please excuse the references to winter) and continue on from there;
I'm a bad blog mommy. As I sat here tonight, watching 'The Voice' and messaging with a friend on Facebook, I had a scary moment which closely resembled Catherine O'Hara's reaction on the plane to Paris in 'Home Alone'.
"Blog!!!" my shocked mind screamed. Yes, I screamed in my mind. I can't scream out loud. I'd scare my mom. She always comes running to see if I'm OK when I'm cheering for something I'm watching. She's a worrier.
ANYWHO, my poor, poor blog. I love it so much, but I have been so horribly neglectful. It's been a long, lazy winter and I need some motivation to get up off the damn couch. One great way to do that and to make myself accountable is to get back to writing this blog!!
In my defense, while I was sitting on my couch all damn winter, I DID work on fulfilling a list item. I've been making a lot of crafts and have started a Facebook page to sell all my goodies. I've done pretty well, and even sold enough at Christmas to pay for almost all of my gifts. But now it's summer and I have STILL been neglecting this poor thing. I went back and read some of my previous posts and I was so proud of myself. I really enjoyed reading them, and I always enjoy writing them. So I promise to be better.
I feel like at this point we need a bit of an update and recap of last year's list, which was, for the most part, a bust. I am confident in having finished about 6 of the 16 items on last year's list, but I obviously haven't written them up. Blog fail. But I will!
Things in my life have been a bit crazy over the last few months. I got in my first car accident, helped several friends through some very challenging times, had more car trouble and ended up having to buy a new car, was thrown into a tailspin at work, and had a tree fall on my house in a hurricane, which knocked the power out for 9 days. Yes. You heard correctly. I was without power again. Combine with that the fact that 29 and I broke up in March and I have rejoined the dating scene and you begin to get a picture of the chaos that is my life at the moment. Good things have come from it as well, however. 29 and I are still friends, I have become a lot closer to my friends and in June my baby sister got engaged. I'm going to be Maid of Honour :-)
I promise more posts will come soon. I feel like I'm living in a sitcom lately, with all the bizarre and crazy things that have been happening to me. I'm sure you'll get a laugh out of them. Stay tuned. And yell at me if I don't keep up with my posts.
This doesn't really fit in anywhere on the list, but I feel I should share it, if only to give people a good laugh. I will warn you, however, due to graphic and disgusting content, reader discretion is advised. Here is my journey into the land of home remedies.
Immediately following the power outage disaster I started to get those horrible little symptoms that let you know you're getting a cold. I woke up on my first day back to work feeling sluggish and congested, with a pretty nasty cough. Off I trudged to work, however. As the day progressed I felt worse and worse, so I was very happy to get home and relax. And then the power went out again. Fortunately this time it wasn't out for very long, but I didn't want to go to bed until it was back. When I finally got to bed at about 1am, breathing was a real challenge. Between 1 and 5:30 I basically just dozed. Twice I woke up because I'd stopped breathing. So when my alarm went off at 6:50 I called in sick and went back to sleep.
Now, I'm not a delicate flower at the best of times. I'm messy and often very disorganized. I'm always in a rush because I'm usually running late. And when I'm sick I'm even worse. All I want to do is cuddle up on the couch with my blankie and do nothing. I don't clean up anything until I feel better. There will be piles of kleenex everywhere. There will be dirty dishes on every flat surface. If I cook anything the dirty utensils will remain on the counter and it's rare that anything makes it to the garbage can. I could apologize, but to who? I live alone. Thankfully.
I've never been one to go to the doctor every time I'm sick. I basically only go to the doctor if I have something serious that I can't shake. I'm also not a huge fan of using medication when I'm sick. I find it only temporarily relieves the symptoms and seems to make my cold last longer. So that leaves either doing nothing, or going with a more natural approach. I'm not a big fan of just letting things run their course, so I decided to spend my day testing some home remedies. Some worked, some didn't. Some I'd recommend, others were just plain gross. I warn you, it's about to get real. Real disgusting.
Home Remedy #1- Vaporub and socks to bed
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| Raynaud's Syndrome. Yay. |
This one grossed my mom out. Not because I had to slather vaporub on my feet, but because I had to wear socks to bed. She's weird like that. I wear socks to bed most nights from October to May because I have Raynaud's Syndrome, which causes the tips of my fingers and toes to go numb and turn white if I get cold, even slightly cold. I usually kick the socks off in the night, but if my feet are cold when I go to bed, I don't sleep. So there, Mom.
For this remedy you are supposed to slather vaporub on the bottoms of your feet, put on some socks and go to sleep. They say that different areas of your feet correlate with different areas of your body and I think the point of this remedy is for the vaporub to affect the sinus area. So I decided to give it a shot.
I didn't personally have any vaporub, but my parents did. It's my dad's go-to when he's sick, and anytime he hears me say I'm not feeling well he tells me to rub on the vaporub. So, like a good daughter/person desperate to feel better, I slapped a pile of vaporub on my feet, and for good measure also rubbed my chest, sinuses and under my nose.
Verdict: Not really sure. I was still pretty congested and phlegmy, but when I skipped a night I DID feel more congested the next day. I'd do it again.
Home Remedy #2- Turmeric and pepper milk
This one was a bit of a gamble. I found it online and the instructions admitted that it was a bit difficult to stomach, but I figured it was worth a shot.
Now, look at this picture. It doesn't look dangerous. It looks kind of fun. Yellow milk? That's crazy! And it was a pretty simple recipe. One cup of milk, warmed as hot as you could stand, to which you add 1 teaspoon of turmeric, 2 teaspoons of black pepper and honey to taste. Turmeric showed up frequently in home remedies and is supposed to be a wonder food. Honey is too, in its raw, unpasteurized form. Sadly, it's hard to get that in the small town in which I live, so I had to go with the regular kind. I didn't think about the measurements too closely, which I should have, in retrospect. This remedy is supposed to help with itchy throat and cough, but I don't think I actually ingested enough for it to work.
First of all, the creamy looking picture on the right does not show the ominous black pepper that floated aimlessly through the glass. The fact that there was twice as much black pepper as turmeric should have been a warning to me, but I wasn't thinking clearly. All those cold germs in my head clearly affected my judgement. So, I mixed it all up and took a drink. And it wasn't too bad. Until the pepper jumped up and roundhouse kicked me in the face. Ten minutes later I took a second drink. PEPPERED!! And then my stomach started to feel weird. Ten minutes later I took my third and last drink, as my stomach took a huge lurch.
Verdict: No. Never. Horrible. Do. Not. Try. EVER.
Home Remedy #3- Hot water with lemon and honey
This one was pretty straight forward. Once again, honey is beneficial for colds, and so are lemons (probably at least partly because of the vitamin C). There is a debate as to whether hot beverages in general are good for colds, but nothing really makes you feel better than a nice, hot drink when you're feeling icky. All I did for this was juice a lemon (about 2 tablespoons seems to be the best amount), put it in a mug, fill the mug with boiling water and then add honey until it tasted sweet enough for my liking. It was delicious. Like Neocitran without the medicine taste.
Verdict: I like to think it helped. It warmed me up and helped my throat. I'll definitely keep drinking this one, even when I'm not sick.
Home Remedy #4- Steam
Here is where is gets gross. Almost embarrassingly so. If you're squeamish, don't read this paragraph. So, steam. Boil a kettle, pour the water in a bowl (you can add a few things if you want), put a towel over your head and lean over the bowl. I added some apple cider vinegar and honey to mine. This method is designed to loosen up...well, snot, if I'm being honest. So, leaning over a bowl of steaming water when you have a runny nose leads to...dripping snot into the bowl. After a few minutes of this I just decided to go for it. I breathed in the steam and blew out. Yup, I blew my nose into a bowl. It looked disgusting, but I felt MUCH better after I did. My nose was so sore from kleenex that this was such a nice change. I was able to breathe through both nostrils for the first time in days. But this isn't the worst part of the story.
As previously mentioned, I am a slob when I'm sick. So instead of taking the bowl to the bathroom and dumping it I put a cover on it and sat it on the coffee table. But not until I'd poured the remnants of the turmeric pepper milk into it. I like to condense my mess at least. By this time the pepper and turmeric had settled into a glob of sludge on the bottom of the mug. And when you pour milk into hot water it curdles. So there was that. Soon enough, my mother came down to check on me. And when she saw the covered bowl on the table she picked it up to see what it was. And I shrieked at her. Repeatedly, until she put it down. She asked what it was and when I told her she asked me why. My answer, sick, cranky and PMSing, was "Because". Fortunately, she left it at that and accepted my apology for yelling like a fishwife at her.
Verdict: This worked really well. I will definitely do it again. But I will clean up immediately. Sorry, Mom.
Home Remedy #5- Chicken Noodle Soup
Technically, it was turkey soup. Because what else do you use when you've cooked 2 turkeys in one week? So frozen turkey it was. So, the soup. Chicken soup is the general go-to when people are feeling sick. And while watching an episode of Dr. Oz (which I never do because I disagree with a lot of his advice), I found out that there actually IS some validity to the claims of the benefits of chicken soup. Here are the recommendations the show made to make your chicken soup better, followed by what I found out about the truth of the claims.
1. Use dark meat- Most people avoid it because it has a high fat content and more calories, but dark meat actually has more nutritional value than white meat, and 2/3 of the fat in dark meat is unsaturated fat. That's the good fat and it helps you stay fuller longer. Dark meat is also higher in B vitamins, zinc, iron and selenium (and antioxidant), as well as myoglobin, which sends oxygen to your muscles when you're exercising. Not that that is horribly useful when you're laying on the couch moaning, but hey, it can't hurt, right? Here's a link to some more useful info on dark meat.
Dark meat vs white meat
2. Oregano- Oregano has Omega-3s, antioxidants, vitamin K and is a natural antibacterial agent. So apparently it kicks that little cold germ's butt.
3. Drinking broth from the bowl- I guess this goes along with the hot beverages thing. Apparently, hot beverages and soup increase the nasal mucus velocity, which basically means it makes your nose run faster. Yummy. Maybe that's why my steam bowl was so effective...
And so I made a quick soup. Same recipe I usually use, except I cheated and used some chicken broth from Epicure instead of making my own. Lots of turkey, mostly dark meat, celery, carrots, potatoes, noodles and a LOT of oregano. It was yummy, and was pretty much the only thing I ate for 4 days.
Verdict: Not sure. I think it worked. I didn't stay sick for as long as I usually do. And the soup tasted good, so I'd definitely make it again.
Home Remedy #6- Sleep
Not to state the obvious, but sleep is very important. Your body heals itself while you sleep. Sleep is one of my favourite things and I love a good nap from time to time. A quick, half hour cat nap that is. Not the 2 hour coma from which you awake to confusion over where you are, who you are and what century it is. This was highly touted as a good way to combat illness, so obviously I did as I was told. I am convinced that this helped. I am fortunate enough to be the only one I have to take care of. I have no kids, so I know this isn't as doable for everyone as it was for me, but I really believe that it helped.
Verdict: This absolutely worked. Probably better than any of the other things.
So there we have it. Using these home remedies I was able to kick a pretty nasty cold in about 4 days (for the most part). A week later a still have a bit of a cough and some minor congestion, but it's manageable. I did also take 2 ibuprofen before bed on 2 of the 4 nights because I had splitting headaches. I will definitely continue to use most of these remedies on future colds. I hope I didn't disgust you all too much, and hopefully you'll find something that works for you.
To say that the last few weeks have been draining would be best described as a horrible understatement. I had such good intentions, but, as usual, life had other plans for me.
I am fortunate enough to have a job that gives me time off at Christmas. This year, I was looking forward to a blissful 12 days off. In keeping with my list items, I was planning to Take Time to Actually Enjoy Christmas and Sell Some Handmade Items. I've started a little side business on Facebook called Blue Box Creations, and thanks to the fabulous girls I work with I was able to do almost all of my Christmas shopping with proceeds from selling my items. In order to fill all my requests, however, I needed to spend the week leading up to and the first 3 days of my vacation crafting my little butt off. Not that I minded girls, I appreciate the orders! More on that later.
Then, having finally finished all my orders (with a bit of help from my mom) and gotten ALL my shopping done, I looked upon December 23rd as the day I could relax and really focus on the joy of the holidays. And then the power went out. In the entire town and large parts of the surrounding areas. And it stayed off until 2:25 am on December 28th. And all my plans went swiftly down the drain. In a later post I will describe how my Christmas in the dark ended up very differently from what I expected.
The point of this post is to explain how I'm feeling as I embark on the journey that will be 2014. I'm automatically a bit nervous every time an even numbered year pops up on the calendar. Maybe it's psychological, but I do NOT have a good track record in even numbered years. In 2000 my grandmother died. In 2002 I ended a close friendship I'd had all through high school. 2004 seems to have been fairly uneventful. 2006 my ex broke up with me for the first time. 2008 I ended friendships with TWO best friends; one of 10 years and one of 24. 2010 was a doozy. My cousin died in April, my 15 year old cat died in June, my uncle died in July and my ex broke up with me in August. For the second time. 2012 was the year that began this whole Valancy Stirling journey, the year that my ex broke up with me for the third and final time. So yeah, I hate even numbered years. But I'm trying to think about how those years helped me grow and to be positive about the year to come.
So I am nervous as the year begins. And the lack of rest and relaxation over my "vacation" has left me feeling exhausted at the thought of going back to work tomorrow. And I've gained just enough weight that my clothes aren't comfortable. And my face is rebelling with huge breakouts AND dry patches. And I have a cold. And I've been eating crap so my stomach hurts. And I'm basically just miserable. But I'm determined to snap out of it. Soon. I promise.
